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Hello all, We’re about 48 days away from January 1, 2026. As a therapist, I see this every year people trying to add more to their lives in the name of “productivity.” We buy new journals, download new apps, and tell themselves, “This year I’ll finally get it together and get that 6 pack by spring break.” Deep down, I appreciate the optimism... But here’s what I think gets missed: People need less emphasis on organization and new goals, and more emphasis on carrying less. The Rory Vaden Focus Funnel: (Aka "Productivity for Real People")Rory Vaden, author of Procrastinate on Purpose, developed a tool called the Focus Funnel (click here for more in depth summary). Here’s the gist: every task you face should go through this sequence of rigorous questioning:
Most people never make it past step one. They just do, do, do. and eventually get tired, then get burned out in Q2 or Q3. Compounding Interest...for Your Time (and maybe your peace):Think of automation your time like financial investing. A small deposit (lets say: 5 to ten minutes saved) compounds over time into something massive. Here’s how everyday examples stack up: Total saved if you implemented Vaden's tool for just ONLY 15 minutes you would save:
That’s time you could be sleeping, training, or playing with your kids. IMO The #1 Reason Resolutions Fail year after year is not because they're lazy... its because they're too busy, too overcommitted, too full.Most people make new goals without first making space. People have limits, and for some reason January makes people think they can blow by those limits out of willpower/white knuckling. The people who actually hit their goals next year won’t be the most motivated...they’ll be the ones who chose focus and clarity with their systems. Chose to declutter their lives before committing. How to Apply This Before 2026Think of November and December as your “decluttering months.”
Your Weekly Challenge To start today:Pick one recurring task that eats 10–20 minutes of your week.
Implement it before Sunday and earn your time back. Stay Connected, — Zach Mental Health for Men Founder, Clinical therapist 📵 Newsletter Sponsor: Brick Your Phone You’d be amazed how much time you get back when your phone isn’t nibbling away at your attention every 30 seconds. That’s where Brick comes in - No apps. No rabbit holes. No “where did the last 20 minutes go?” Just uninterrupted space to think, create, rest, and be fully present. If you’re ready to stop letting your screen siphon off your time and attention, this is your moment. Use code ZACHARY81610 for a reader discount. ______________________ |
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